Meh.

myinnerdomme:

struggle pet. please. I want to watch you strain against those ropes and then see the moment in your eyes when you realize there’s no point. 

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Can I just talk about my favorite part of bondage for a moment?  Because it’s this. 

You have three parts of a bondage scene: tying, tied and playing, and then untying.

Tying is wonderful; it starts the power dynamic, it starts the connection, and it starts the energy.  Here is this person who trusts you enough to give their body to you and give you their vulnerability and helplessness.  Only they’re not actually helpless, because they have you.  (So naturally, the most important thing to remember when tying someone up is that it’s not about the rope, it’s about your bottom.  So as often as you can, keep eye contact with them, not so much the rope.)

Then you have the person tied up and you play with them however you want: sensation, impact, whatever.  And that part is also awesome, especially since by now the connection is established, and their power is yours, and that feeling is one of the best feelings in the world.

But guys.

My favorite part is actually the UNTYING.

It’s vastly underrated and even rushed, but no, seriously, it’s a beautiful moment.  This person, who has literally given themselves to you, by this point is usually so in their headspace that this moment brings you back together. The untying is so much better than the tying, because the energy you were creating in the tying process is already there and thriving by this stage.  In tying, you are making this person your bottom, and in untying you are unmaking them.  And that is a wonderful feeling of power to have.  The best moment is when you’re untying and your sub can barely move their body to aid you.  Even better if they slump forward into you as you work on a knot. 

The untying perfectly illustrates just how drunk they are off of you.  It’s as much a part of the scene as whatever play before.  It also perfectly leads into aftercare, which can also be amazing.

I know I post a lot of bound submissives with perfect rope and finished knots, but actually I really wish I could find more things like this gif.  It’s my favorite part of bondage, not the final product, but rather the making and umaking of a person.

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Hmmm, I’m now tempted to watch this show.

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the-alley:

Equiped Dungeon, professional Master

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queen-stacey:

gildam:

Photo by Pavel Ryzhenkov

beautiful

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bondageisnotacrimeparis:

Playground…

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gayboyfetish4u:

Bound boys are the best

kazukiwolf:

Some of my work as a top, chain hogtied

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